Never uses phrases such as:
''You shoul be happy now, in
some years you will face real
problems'', or ''if you can't
hanle this situation, what will
you o when you grow older and
have real /big problems?''
each life period has problems, an they are real and big
for the person handling them, and equally difficult to deal
with, no matter how ''easy'' they might seem to other
people.Phrases like these, lead to low-self esteem
people that are afraid of life, for practically no reason